BER month already !!!!!!

whoaaahh!!!! today is septerber 1... first day of the BER month... meaning? xmas is coming ...wow wow wow!!!! so i can hear xmas song to any fm station on the radio... guys my xmas gift huh?? (kahit hindi binalot ok na sakin.. as long as heartily given HAHAHAHA)...LOL :)

advance Merry Xmas! muah :)

Birtyday GAme!

a friend of mine che che has a gimik about her incoming birthday... its so cool.. guys its a blog contest. just post in your blog about this contest and link her blog in ur list,... at stake the price is $26 worth of paypal money.. so hurry up and join this birthday game of her...

HERE ARE THE URL's:

visit them all for more information!

BLOGSILOG
Cherry’s Comfort Zone
Thinking Out Loud
DigiScrapz: Captured Memories
Buzzy Me
Wishing and Hoping
Fab Finds, Etc.

== Once you have published the entry on your blog, let me know by leaving a comment on this post. Remember, you can earn one entry per blog so the more blogs you own, the more chances of winning! (meaning to her blog... u have to comment on her blog)

== And lastly, all entries should be in by September 1 at 11:59pm (-7 GMT). The names of the lucky winners will be announced on September 2 (my bday!).
So what are you waiting for? Join now and get the chance to win some moolah!

so good luck guys!!!! i mean gudluck to me LOL!

Would You Trust An Online Friend?

ive just read this article :) have fun reading !

Let’s say you’ve got a friend (several, probably) that you’ve corresponded with online for years. You know how it is, a bunch of e-mails, maybe a group blog, some instant messaging, “digg this for me please”, hanging out in the same discussion groups and forums, those kind of things. You think you know him, he’s a friend.

However, you have never actually met this person. Maybe you’ve had a voice or video chat, but that’s it. Your primary way of communication is IM and e-mail.

Do you trust him? And if you do, would you lend him money?
I’m just wondering, because over the years I’ve had to decide on things like this numerous times, in fact, I just did a few weeks back. Trust prevailed, that time, but it hasn’t always. It is a hard thing, I think, and although I’d rather give someone the benefit of a doubt, sometimes I just can’t do it.

So how about you? Have an online friend asked for support in any way, be it money or something else, and how did you handle it? I’m curious.

Join the Discussion (click comment pls for ur reactions)

Such a tiring DAY ! :(

whole day event at HOLY CROSS OF MINTAL!, its a family day or SPORTSFEST for the parents and teachers. grrrrr i just went there for an attendance sake??LOL yeah i wasnt able to join the games coz am wearing hi heelss.... gosh of me.. sportsfest then wearing high heels,, LOL and its soooo sunny day!!!!!!!!!! ayoko magbabad sa ini noh. :)

How to prepare for a breakup?

You may feel pressure from your friends and family to just break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend and move on, but it doesn't usually feel that simple.

* The person you're dating has probably become a huge part of your life. You might see more of them now than you do your friends or family. So being scared about feeling lonely after the break up is normal. Talking to friends or finding activities to fill the new time you have may make this easier.

* You will miss your boyfriend/girlfriend after you break up, maybe a lot and maybe just on occasion. Even if they've been abusive and controlling, this is normal. Try writing down the reasons you want to end your relationship now and keep them as a reminder for later on.

* If your boyfriend/girlfriend is controlling and jealous, they may make a lot of decisions for you. It can take time to adjust to making your own decisions again.

* You may be scared to end the relationship. If you are, take that fear seriously. Ending a relationship with an abusive or controlling person is not the same as ending a healthy relationship.

so guys, are ready ?think many times before making any actions, a move that u wont regret after all..

Such a Boring Day!WHEW

i dont know why i feel so bored today.. maybe my period is coming.. waaaaaaaaa!!!!

A Fulfilling Day!

i woke up early, cooked for our breakfast and prepare the stuff of my kids.. eveything is ready goin to school... and today is also the exam day of my 2.7 yr old son matt-matt, whats new?? he got perfect again.. HAHAAHAAHA considering that hes only 2.7 yrs old???? well after his class, i went directly to downtown and pay all the bills, go the bank for my moms monthly allowance, and bought some stuff in the mall, like?? an electric stove.. wala lang.. LOL!!!
before i forgot i bought DVD's : WANTED and NARNIa (prince caspian) and latest collection of female pop hits.. whew!!!
as i arrived i watched the WANTeD movie.. and wow , its soooooo amazing, (pero atik pud gamay) LOL.... but guys ang ganda ni ANGELINA JOLIE.. HAHAHHAA

I Missed my Job!

i used to work at night and sleep at day time.. whats my job then??? hmmm ... guys am not a GRO if thats what u think huh?...LOL ... well i used to work in a callcenter. iam a callcenter representative.. meaning (taga sagot ng tawag) by whom? naks.... i was assinged in an inbound project, the customers will call us to place an order and were the one who will handle the transaction... some customers are so rude, deaf coz their age i guess, some customers are so mean coz hypocrite some are so nice and humble.... i do encounter a smooth transactions and some are very very bad experience..

the main probs with the callcenter job is that ,, customers are hard of hearing, some cant understand out accent as filipinos, and we also cant understand their accent coz they speak so slang and its like their eating the words.... and they will tell u .. u filipinos cant speak english and u idiot... i want to talk to ur manager or a supervisor,,,, that mean!!! and the manager or supervisor dont want to talk to them either.. waaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!(magbinisaya nalang kaya noh?)LOL... but still am having fun working in a callcenter.. though im the favorite of the supervisors and traffic coz they will caught me sleeping everynight.. HAHAHAHA thats me.... and i kept on telling myself.. i hate this job grrrrrrrrrrrr i want to resign now! naks.. but still duty parin hays... until such time i dont have a yaya anymore and i decided to resign and thats the end of my career.. LOL

again i missed taking calls.. i missed the customers cursed... HAHAHA.. i missed my salary everyday 13th and 29th of the month..

and also i missed my friends so much and my fave supervisor Ms Cling.. huhuhuhuhu

our dog LUCKY

our dogs name is LUCKY! he's breed is am not too sure.. hahaha!!!!LOL... well again LUCKY is a very friendly dog...

in our subdivision is very popular.... its like everybody know his name... one time he was caught by the god found team.. and my sister cried about what had happened. then were thinking of not taking him back coz nobody will get him from maa the dog found team where located. but my sister ella kept on dreaming about him .. hahahah shes so affected talaga.. well lucky is so adorable dog.. he barks so loud and hes so big..

actually he has to victims already.. he bite my son CLYDE and our neighbor JV.. were so worried about what he did coz our neighbor is asking us to buy the medicine and also the payment for check up.. waaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!! so what can we do?? than to give the said amount... from that incident we were so careful and we do the injection for anti rabies for him.. and were not afraid anymore .. knowing that hes safe from that already...

my brother the one who's incharge of giving food for LUCKY everyday ... hahahhaa...

LUCKy is our guard at home.... LUCKY the hero....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The Pains of LOVE Affairs ! ! !

infidelities of husbands and wives create endless doubts, rationalizations, guilt feelings and conflicts. These feelings recur now and then. They lead to despair. They allow no peace of mind. they are painful to bear, especially if the aggrieved spouse is very loving and faithful, a quality which husbands and wives expect from each other.
every infidelity has its corresponding ecstacy and agony. And all parties involved in it - the husband, the girlfriend, and wife - get their respective share of the agony which usually outweighs the ecstacy. now let us look at the agony each one has to contend with.

HUSBAND - for a husband, does he have enough resources to carry on the affair? if he has, would these resources net get depleted? for how long? on the other hand, if the husband does not have enough means, would the expenses he may incur in the affair not deprive his wife and children of the financial support they need?
how about his health? affairs require a great deal of time and effort. after work, the married man has to run to his girlfriend's place and from there, he has to go home late. this is tiresome and tedious. would this not erode his health? how about the barrage of conflicts that go with it?
if the husband is with the family, he worries about his girlfriend. "Where is she right now? Where did she go and with whom? at this point, he feels uneasy and jealous. and what a false feeling to be lying down in bed with his wife pretending to be enjoying her company when in reality he is thinking of his girlfriend.
on the other hand, if he is with his girlfriend he thinks of his wife and children. "what are they doing right now? Are they in good health? are the children in school? and how do they feel without their father?" With all these problems, how could a husband have a peace of mind?
Guilt is one big problem that a husband has to suffer. the thought of having neglected an innocent wife and the children who need his care and attention mist is painful. He is completely unfair.
on the other hand, wha about his promise to his girlfriend? his lying to her that he had been exerting effort to get a legal separation from his wife when in reality he has never brought up the subject to her. A total deceit.

GIRLFRIEND - jealousy is a negative thought. it is ba for one's health. for a girlfriend, could she withstand the pressure of jealousy? it is a tough and horrible conflict. it could drive a girlfriend to suicide and a husband to kill.
take the case of a loving and faithful wife married to her husband for the past twenty years. both were living happily together until one day, the wife found out that her husband had anothe woman in his life. because of this, she was hysterical. some women could take a situation like this. others could not. still others could be driven to commit suicide because of jealousy.
on the other hand, a husband may leave his innocent wife and children for another woman. one husband provided his woman with an apartment and financial support. in coming to her apartment one day, he unexpectedly found this new woman with another man in bed. in a fit of jealousy and anger, he shot both of them.
Memories if the lovely past can also be painful. when a girlfriend and her married man are together. when a girlfriend and her married man are together, theirs a paradise. though a short-lived forever. everything is at its best. So superb. however, when parting time comes, the sadness of the last goodbye lingers longer than the beautiful moments. the tortures, longing and miseries are there to stay with her. memories of the beautiful moments are there, too. but her married man, the very person she loves, is not there.
still painful to think about is when a married man leaves for home. While the girlfriend sleeps alone in her faithful bed, her married man sleeps with his wife in their bed. worse is the thought what while she is devoting her time to her married man, her married man is devoting his time to the care of his wife and children. it is totally unfair!
of course, it is very comforting for a girlfriend to hear from her married man that sex with her is enjoyable beyond compare. that sex at home is no longer exciting and thrilling as it used to be. all these could lead to rationalizations, doubts, and conflicts ."what about sex with his wife? how often? do they also orgasm? " AT this point, she becomes sexually jealous.
Relationship between a married man and his girlfriend has to be secret. This puts the girlfriend in a very difficult situation, expecially when she loves her married man and is very proud of him. she wants to introduce him to her family, relatives and friends but the she cannot. for boths sake, she has to restrain herself in telling anyone.
celebrations of birthdays, christmas, new year and valentines are also depressing and painful. The girlfriend has to attend these occasions all by herself without the person she loves. and while others are enjoying, the girlfriend cannot. and if ever she has to spend any of these occasions with her married man, it has to arranged a day or two earlier or afeter.
still another problem that a girlfriend has to contend with is fear of being found out by her parents, relatives and friends that she is only a mistress and not the legal wife. and that their relationship is illegitimate. it lowers her value and self-esteems before her peers. it makes her feel bad about herself. a feeling of degradation.

WIFE - in the case of the wife, the infidelity of her husband creates in her endless doubts, rationalizations, conflicts and despair. also guilt feelings that she has failed in her relationship with her husband. and if ever she did, in what areas of their relationship? in companionship, in sex, or in outlook in life?
these doubts and conflicts recur now and then, they allow no peace of mind. they are painful to bear, especially if the wife is very loving and faithful. A quality which most husbands expect.
all these rationalizations, coupled with jealousy and fear of eventual abondonment, are indeed horrible. everytime a husband leaves home, the wife would always suspect that he is going to see his girlfriend although he is not. and if a husband would tell his wife that he no longer loves his girlfriend, the question is - "What of the past and of the beginning? how untrue that love is out of the question?" The fact remains that he had loved her before. this thought gives the wife a feeling of emotional insecurity. so terrifying and devastating. and because of this, many of them learned to take sleeping pills just to avoid sleepless nights of doubting and rationalizing.