Sunday, August 17, 2008

How to prepare for a breakup?

You may feel pressure from your friends and family to just break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend and move on, but it doesn't usually feel that simple.

* The person you're dating has probably become a huge part of your life. You might see more of them now than you do your friends or family. So being scared about feeling lonely after the break up is normal. Talking to friends or finding activities to fill the new time you have may make this easier.

* You will miss your boyfriend/girlfriend after you break up, maybe a lot and maybe just on occasion. Even if they've been abusive and controlling, this is normal. Try writing down the reasons you want to end your relationship now and keep them as a reminder for later on.

* If your boyfriend/girlfriend is controlling and jealous, they may make a lot of decisions for you. It can take time to adjust to making your own decisions again.

* You may be scared to end the relationship. If you are, take that fear seriously. Ending a relationship with an abusive or controlling person is not the same as ending a healthy relationship.

so guys, are ready ?think many times before making any actions, a move that u wont regret after all..


bailee said...

I think, You can't really prepare for anything like that. If you know in your soul that the time is right to end it, then pull the Band-Aid off quickly - don't prolong the agony for either of you.Most experiences are valuable, even sadness/loss. So don't be afraid of it, but embrace or at least accept it with the goal of learning something (about yourself and other people). Observe the emotion, and get on with your life.

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